Week Two

Week two of working Mama is over. Two was better than one so I have high hopes for three. Since the weather man in New England is using words like 'major', 'historic', 'threaten' and 'epic proportions' to describe an upcoming storm , I think I'm going to get a few extra snuggle days this week. I'll take 'em!

I have found the key to a sucessful week is organization and efficiency. Since time is limited with my little guy I want every waking second with him I can get. I try to pack everything I need to do into the moments when he's napping. He usually takes a late afternoon/early evening nap which allows me to "do bottles" for the next day and wash pump stuff. I can usually stuff in making my lunch & set the coffee before I hear him jabbering away. Occasionally I can squeeze throwing in or folding a load of laundry as well. There isn't time set aside for house work anymore. It gets done during those in-between times. I've found that by getting up at 5:30 I have time for extra snuggles and a little housework before I leave in the mornings. My busy day doesn't stop when I get to work either.  Teaching doesn't allow for many breaks that aren't scheduled. I "go on" at 8:30 and the show ends around 3:30 every day. My schedule during the work day is down to the minute. I can not take an extra 5 minutes to pump or shift my pumping times at all because the kids always need me at those exact times. My pumping has become an Olympic event. While I have blocked out 30 minutes for each session I NEVER make it out of the classroom on time. I'm always 10 mins or so late then I rush up 3 flights of stairs and down two halls to where I pump. I've become good at setting that thing up and breaking it down. Surely qualifying me for the Guiness book of records. I should contact them! 

I have found that, reminiscent of my college days, I get much more accomplished being busy like this than I did pre-baby. He's a sampling;

Workday

5:30 - alarm goes off and scares the shit out of the baby. I try to turn it off before it sounds so that poor Kyle doesn't cry. 

5:39 (after one snooze or a potty break)- nurse

5:55 - pass baby to hubby so they can do their morning cuddles & kyle poops his pants, every morning like clockwork. I get coffee, pee & feed the dog then I get my pump parts left to dry overnight. 

6:00 - 6:15 - pump & drink coffee while listening to daddy and kyle laughing - melting my heart everytime. 

6:15 - 6:20 - wash pump parts 

6:20 - 6:25 - sneak in a few kisses and coos

6:25 - 6:45 - get myself dressed for the day while Steve dresses Kyle for the day. 

6:45 - 'nurse' baby again. I don't know how much he really gets because I just pumped an hour before but he craves the closeness and so do I. He usually falls asleep while I nurse him. 

7:00 - 7:15 - stare at sleeping baby and prepare my heart to leave him. If he doesn't fall asleep we play or read. 

7:15 - put baby in swing if Daddy is taking him to where he goes for the day (full time daycare starting in Feb. right now it's family) or in his car seat if I'm dropping him off. Unless he's awake then he 'helps' me gather our belongings. 

7:25 - usually load & turn on or empty dishwasher then change laundry to dryer while putting in another load. (I can do this while holding the baby.)

7:30 - leave for work or said childcare location 

8:00 - get to work & eat breakfast 

8:15 - 9:00 - teach

9:00 - 9:30 - pump

9:30 - 11:30 - teach

11:30 -12:00 - lunch

12:00 - 12:30 - pump

12:30 - 3:10 - teach

3:10 - 3:30pump

3:30 - 3:45 - stack chairs & set out materials for the next day (I get it all ready for the week on the weekends & Monday morning so all I have to do is grab it most days)

3:45 - race out of school to gather my heart where I left it at the childcare location. Somehow I get my prep work done inbetween things or on the weekends so I don't have to stay after much. I'm sure this will change eventually. 

4:30 - play & nurse. Again this is more for closeness. 

5:00 - put sleeping baby in swing while I do bottles, lunch, pack bags for next day & sometimes a household chore. 

5:30-5:45 - nurse & cuddle fest while Steve makes dinner. 

6:30 - 7:00 - dinner & sometimes holding a sleeping baby while watching the evening news & jeopardy. If Kyle is awake we do tummy time or talk while I eat. When he is big enough to sit in a highchair we will all have dinner together. Every night. Few exceptions. Whatever time is left before bath time we usually talk and laugh. Kyle loves to talk and finds Mommy and Daddy hilarious!

7:30 - bath time. FAVORITE part of my day. This is a family event. The mirror family is there as well. His bathtub is on the counter in our bathroom in front of a big mirror and he loves to smile at our reflections. 

7:45 - 8:00 - story time. Another favorite. 

8:00 - baby bedtime. Steve gives him a bottle and rocks him to sleep. This is their solo bonding time but sometimes Kyle cries for boobies. I only intervene when he gets worked up. This is when I usually get a household chore done.  Vacuum or mop or bathroom scrub. I always end with an arm full of things to get out away. 

8:45 - 9:00 - right after switching laundry or turning on the dishwasher I crawl into bed and sometimes read but mostly pass out. I squeeze brushing my teeth into this somewhere. Haha. 

3:30 - sometimes Kyle wakes up so I nurse. Steve and I take turns getting up with him so every other night I get to sleep right through this. Most nights he sleeps right through. 

I am fairly certain that I get as much done as I do because I get such great sleep at night. I feel super blessed to have a great sleeper on my hands. I recently posted in a Facebook mommy group I belong to about how he wakes up in the night but doesn't alert us that he needs anything. Usually he just plays with his hands and falls right back to sleep. We only get him if he cries or yells. He doesn't always cry when he needs something. Sometimes it's a loud "ahhhhh" and he'll do it a few times before it turns to tears. I'm fairly certain I embarrassed myself by being concerned asking if this was a problem and worrying about being a neglectful Mother. He's just so easy going I don't want to miss something he needs. I do enjoy the extra closeness when he does need an extra nursing at 3:30am. Even though I rarely fall back asleep for more than 45 minutes, I love having that extra time with him. He's such a happy guy I always get big smiles, even when he's hungry. Our weekends are much more relaxed. The housework only happens when I can pry him out of my arms. We all have major cuddle sessions on Saturday mornings and Sunday nights. There's usually a trip to Stop and Shop or Target mixed in. Sometimes both. Steve and I take turns staring at the sleeping baby, rarely putting him down for a snoozer. I get school work/prep done during those inbeteeen times and I feel much more focused when I do. I feel good. Happy. This little guy has made me a better person. For which I am absolutely grateful.  

"Watching the sleeping baby"

"Saturday morning cuddles"

His newest discovery. He can grab things and eat them. He just can't seem to figure out how to let go when he's done. Watching him learn is the greatest thing ever.